I finally had to pick a Chinese name since I got married in November and needed it for the marriage certificate. My last name is 江, but for my first name I was chosing between two: 可雲 ke yun and 昆嵐 kun lan. I made my Taiwanese co-workers vote and a lot of people said 可雲 because 昆嵐 sounded too fancy/like a story book.
I actually was given the name many years before but I didn’t like the idea of being called 雲 (cloud), because I felt in English it’s more negative like a dark cloud/etc. But people said that 雲 is a positive word - more to say that you are free like a cloud.
Also, my last name should really be 江謝 - but my husband kept saying that it had too many strokes. When we got to the marriage certificate place, the guy behind the counter was like “look you have to write your name about 40 times. Do you really want to add 謝?” - so I gave up and accepted the easier name, haha
I actually really like 雲, one of my friends in Taipei also have it in her Chinese name and I think it’s beautiful! It makes me think of something soft and bright